How do you deal with rejection?

We are talking about rejection done by ordinary people.

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My reply:

📒So the point is, why worry if an ordinary human being rejected you? And what did they reject you for? Did they reject you for a job that was haraam? Well good for you!🌸

الحمد لله.

🌹Hopefully you will get a job that is halal and you will excel in it.

إن شاء الله

🌹Did a person not accept you as his wife? That’s great too because how do you think it would feel to be married and not loved? And in case they did like you, they may have loved someone else more. Why be with a person who is unsure about you? 🌹

💐You will hopefully get someone better suited for you, who will love you and value you,

إن شاء الله

Did someone remove you from a WhatsApp group because you disagreed with their words? What did you disagree about? Were you right?

🔵Anyway if you got rejected for some shortcomings, try to work on it.

إن شاء الله

That’s the productive approach. 🌹That is the approach that helps you become a better person,

إن شاء الله

Hopefully you will ⏳one day look back and say “I became so much better🏆 after that,

Ma Shaa’ ALLAH.”

🌸If you got rejected wrongfully, don’t worry, the DAY OF JUDGEMENT WILL surely happen. In this life too, you get benefits.

الحمد لله.

The Du’aa to ALLAH, of an oppressed person is not rejected by ALLAH.

✅Self improvement is what we should focus on. 🗒

People come and people go. People live and people die. 🖊

The person that you have to deal with always in this temporary life and in the Aakhirah is “YOU.”

🔎 So Analyze “YOU!”

Work on “YOU!” 🧩 🔨

Be a better “YOU!”🖋🚗

إن شاء الله

Remember, you too may have chosen one dish over another. You might have chosen biryani over pizza 🍕 but don’t forget that pizza is great too🌹

الحمد لله.

Many people love 🍕 pizza!

Many people love Biryani too!

الحمد لله.

(I am only talking about pizzas and biryani with halal ingredients ).

You might say that some people “rejected you” but actually that may not be true, they may have liked you but they may have liked something else more....that’s all. 🌸

They may be wrong. People might be wrong in certain situations.

You are still precious. 🌸

الحمد لله.

Do you choose clothes that are not of your size? One clothing size doesn’t always fit all.

So what? Move on to important tasks.

We don’t know the ghaib. We need to be pleased with the decisions of ALLAH.

We must trust ALLAH. ALLAH CREATED us. ALLAH KNOWS what is best for each of us.

Do you know what people should fear when we mention the word “rejection?”

We should fear acts of bid’ah, because all actions in terms of worship, that have been invented by regular people and are baseless, will be rejected by ALLAH.

May ALLAH PROTECT us.

ALLAH accepts the deed of giving even half a date as Sadaqah(must be done with Ikhlaas and according to the Sunnah).

Focus on seeking the love and rewards by الشَّكُور

ALLAH always does justice.

الله أعلم